He's just not that in to your I.Q.

Book smarts in a relationship... how important is this issue when you're whittling down your options? Jessica Wakeman discusses the role that intelligence plays in relationships... particularly what happens when the two people are on unequal footing. I would agree with the Alexis quoted in the article: "The issue itself can almost be caught into an elitist trap, but it’s not quite something that I let myself feel bad about," she said. "He doesn’t have to have read everything I have, but has to be capable [of it]."